Like most people, I've been thinking about what I want to accomplish in the new year. I've never been one for resolutions, as I'm notoriously terrible at sticking to them, and they generally just make me crabby. This time, however, I've been thinking about what I can resolve to *not* do. My mom and I were talking about all the projects we did this past year, and how most of them were for other people. The vast majority of these projects were "commissioned" in some way. Friends or acquaintances would be impressed with our skills/talents/abilities/whatever, that they would ask for one of their own. Often it would be a barter of some kind, or even in exchange for money. Sometimes, and I'm more guilty of this, they would be presenting a problem and I'd jump in to offer a solution - usually one that involved me sewing or knitting or building or designing something. Now, the problem with these opportunities is that while I like to make gifts and surprises for people, having a commitment usually More